Following is a copy of the full version of the column featured in The Area News complete with oracle card images.
Ask Sharon
Should I stay or should I go?
THIS week I was asked a question by Mark.
“I’m unsure whether to stay in my current job. Lately I’m becoming more frustrated with the actions and decisions of some colleagues. Would it be best to move on?”
When I contemplated this week’s column, before I even knew the question, I began receiving strong feelings about its core messages. When I tuned in more acutely and drew the cards in response to your question, this is what they revealed.
The first card “Communicating Freely” symbolises the source of your concern and frustrations. Do you feel you have not been speaking up for yourself? Have you had some great ideas but been unsure of how to express them for fear of others’ reactions?
Know that you can speak your truth in a way that is respectful and composed, yet still honours your feelings about the situation.
It is about taking a risk and stepping out of your comfort zone. I can assure you this always works out for your highest good, and actually for the good of those around you, even if you can’t see it at first.
“This isn’t the time to step back – rather, it is time to step forward and share from your heart.”
Mark, please don’t let the image of the girl playing her flute with her pet unicorn distract you from the true meaning of this next card: “Following Your Bliss”. This card represents your resolution. It is all about discovering what brings you the most joy. What are you truly passionate about?
You don’t need to necessarily leave your job. If you are already in your dream job or are satisfied with your daily work, then the issue might be about not letting your outer circumstances dictate your inner sense of peace and wellbeing. Easier said than done…I know.
You can, however, take small steps toward a new job or career that better fits with your desires and passions. Maybe while you are still in your current job, you can begin exploring other avenues. There might be a part-time course in your preferred field. Once you start to pursue what ‘makes your heart sing’ you will feel energised and re-invigorated. This is a good indication of when you are on the right path. It is possible to combine what you love with your career. When you act from a place of joy, doors of opportunity will fly open for you.
The final card “Being in the Flow” represents a possible future outcome from following the advice of the other two cards. For you, it demonstrates that once you speak your truth and follow your path of joy, you will feel more in the flow.
You may have noticed lately that you have been encountering moments where life feels like a struggle and more stressful than usual. This is an indication that there is an easier way if you take a step back and consider whether you feel you are on the right path. When you are in the flow, life is easy.
Today’s cards have been drawn from the Gateway Oracle deck. Images and quotes are copyright to Denise Linn 2012.